Invite-Ology
Church invite ideas based off personality
So you want to invite your friend to church... but where do you start? Totally get it. Inviting can be a little weird, possibly awkward. We're here to help! Whether you're the planner or the partier, drawn to power or peace, here are some church invite ideas just for you.
Strength + Drive
If you like to get things done and the word "power" is not offensive but motiviating, then this might be you.
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Hey! I'm going to church for Christmas Eve on December 24th. It lasts about an hour, and I usually learn a lot from the message. Wanna come? Check out the website and let me know which time looks best for you www.crosspointe.com
CONVERSATION STARTER
Questions to Ask
- What's the most interesting thing you've learned lately?
- I've been learning ____ from church recently and it's really helped me ____.
- Do you usually go to church for special events?
FRIENDLY ADVICE
Keep This in Mind
You might be tempted to exclude the emotional aspects of your relationship with God.
Challenge: Find ways you're comfortable expressing it as you invite a friend to church!
People + Fun
If people are your love language + fun is your middle name, this might be you!
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Hey! I was thinking about you, and I think you'd LOVE my church. It's not boring (promise!) and I walk away inspired every week...you should come with me to the Christmas Eve service! You in?! www.crosspointe.com
CONVERSATION STARTER
Questions to Ask
- Can I play you a song? I'm really into this song from my church right now. (play song)
- What are you guys doing Christmas Eve? Does your family enjoy Christmas music?
- One of my favorite things to do at Christmastime is ____. What's yours?
FRIENDLY ADVICE
Keep This in Mind
You might be tempted to focus on how fun it will be—don't forget how meaningful, relevant, and applicable it'll be too!
Oh, and it's great to be excited...but remember, you can't be in two places at once, so don't overbook yourself.
Calm + Harmony
If you'd rather go along to get along + naps are kind of a big deal, this might be you!
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Hey! I've really been enjoying my church, and I think you would too. Want to join me for a Christmas Eve service? It's pretty chill, no "Sunday best" required. Everyone is welcome, kids too - and the pastor is really down-to-earth. Let me know if you're interested, and we can meet there! crosspointe.com
CONVERSATION STARTER
Questions to Ask
- I've been feeling _____ lately… how about you?
- What are your family's (insert event) traditions?
- Growing up, was it a big deal to wear the "perfect" Sunday outfit?
FRIENDLY ADVICE
Keep This in Mind
You might feel a little nervous tossing out the invite...what if it's awkward or they say no?
Remember: it's ok if it doesn't work out. Who knows—maybe it will next time!
Order + Perfection
If you like things to be straightforward and planned out—no guessing required—this might be you!
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Hey! Want to come to church with me for Christmas Eve? There are several services to choose from, so we can find a good time for both of our schedules. I think we'll both get a lot from the message, too. Up for it? www.crosspointe.com
CONVERSATION STARTER
Questions to Ask
- Did you grow up going to church?
- Did you do anything fun this fall?
- Did you have a favorite Christmas tradition you did growing up?
FRIENDLY ADVICE
Keep This in Mind
You might be tempted to undersell your experience or be apologetic for asking/imposing.
Don't! You've found meaning in church—it's ok to share it.